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Tips for New York Funeral Arrangements

Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

Maybe you are overwhelmed or confused. You may have several questions in your mind while arranging a funeral in New York.

A great relief can be obtained by choosing a funeral home where you feel comfortable. In the New York State, it is necessary for you to get a licensed funeral director. Only the funeral director can make arrangements for the preparation, movement, and burial/cremation of the deceased. He/She is also in charge of filing the death certificate and coordinating with the cemetery.

When you meet with the funeral director, you have to ask for a General Price List to show the merchandise and service available. There are a lot of things you need to decide on. Whether you prefer burial with formal viewing rights or choose direct burial or cremation. If you prefer burial, you need to decide whether you will rent or buy the casket. You can also select the kind of funeral service you desire.

When you have confirmed your selections, you will receive an Itemized Statement which will include a contract. This is a legal document which gives you an obligation to pay for the funeral cost.

Here are some tips to help you for New York funeral arrangements:

  1. The state does not require the use of an outer internment receptacle such as a casket. However, many cemeteries require at least a suitable container to be used which may be an unfinished wooden box or any container made of materials such as cardboard, canvass, or pressed wood.
  2. Burial vaults/Grave liners are also not required by law but some cemeteries will compel you to purchase them to prevent sinking or collapsing of the grave. If you prefer not to buy a burial vault, you should choose a cemetery that does not require it.
  3. The New York State does not require embalming. Your funeral director should obtain specific approval from you before proceeding with this service. Your funeral home may require embalming only if you choose to have a particular service such as open casket viewing.
  4. If you choose to embalm the body or prefer to select the viewing or visitation of the body, the funeral director cannot refuse your wishes. He/She may only advise you against viewing due to the condition of the body or cause of death but the final decision is still up to you.

Remember, you are the customer and you should not be pressured to get the merchandise or service that you do not want. You have the right to ask questions, compare prices and to complain if the funeral arrangement is not handled correctly.